Every Woman Needs To Change- Happy Women's Day!

On this women’s day,I would like to share some of my views about women in India.There’s a lot said on how men should change their behavior towards us,they should treat us as individuals not as objects,we should get the same love,care,affection what we give them.But in my dear country,there are number of things that women needs to change about themselves.

First of all, the stubborn, fragile and pampered Indian male ego is a tough nut to crack.So dear women,stop hoping that this will be easy.That's why start making some efforts on your own.

Firstly,every woman needs to change her behavior towards other woman.Suppose,if a fat woman enters some room the first one who passes comment on her is another woman not a man.If a woman has cooked badly,then its a women trait to comment on her dish first.Women are hard on themselves but they are harder on each other.If a woman cannot accept another woman then how can we expect that these men would accept us.If we cannot respect each other than why do we expect from these men to respect us?Why are we being so hard on each other?

While we were learning to speak, our mom understood everything we tried to say. Today we speak a lot & claim “mom,u don’t understand!” How life changes.N so do WE.. Love & Respect all Women (mother, sister, friend, etc)

Then secondly,we the women of India,pamper our kids,husbands and other family members so much that they get habitual towards it.We’re so much trapped in these relations that we often ignore ourseleves.Relationships are vital.  Being a good mother, wife, sister, daughter, friend and lover are extremely important. However, don’t get too tangled. You have another relationship, with yourself. Don’t sacrifice so much that you lose yourself.We laugh at men jokes,even if they aren't  funny.We often sacrifice our properties or our shares for our loving brothers or husbands.Why?Why can’t you live on your own?

Behind every successful man is a woman who is getting ahead of him!

Like every individual,a woman also have some ambitions,some dreams that she wants to complete but she often sacrifices them for their family.Why? If you’re passionate about something why don’t you just complete it?Why don’t you make some efforts to fulfill them?

In our poor country,I still pity those who are living in small towns or villages,where a mother kills her daughter in her womb.If it’s a boy she lets him take birth and live like a prince but if it’s a girl she doesn’t even let her come to this world.

She wants a free sky,
Where she can fly
She don’t ask for the wings,
Just break up her rings

Today,everything has changed.They say our country has developed to some extent though its still a developing one,but what about our Indian minds?What about their development?

It's still lagging behind.If we as women will not change our selves and our behavior towards each other,then nothing will change.

Hope this blog will help to change the minds of few of the Indians.

JAI HIND!

What Do You Want From Life?

 “Waiting hurts. Forgetting hurts. But not knowing which decision to take can sometimes be the most painful...” 

Everybody wants what feels good. Everyone wants to live a care-free, happy and easy life, to fall in love and have amazing relationships, to look perfect, make money, be popular, well-respected and admired.

But have we ever thought what do we want from our life? What are we willing to struggle for? Why do we do so much hard work? and in the end we’re achieving NOTHING.

While de-boarding the metro today, these thoughts occupied my mind. Sitting in the corner and looking at everyone around me, I just realized that everyone’s running like someone has to rush for office , for schools or for colleges .Everyday we are just running ,nobody is satisfied .If someone is rich ,has a lavish house, a marvelous lifestyle his life is still not complete due to some personal issues, health problems or something like that.  On the other hand if someone is poor his life is incomplete because of money. So everyone is struggling in one way or the other.

Maybe we don’t actually know what do we really want from our life. If someone tell us choose a certain course, you’ll earn big bugs we do that. If someone says go and visit that country you’ll enjoy, we go there. I mean why can't we decide on our own? Because we haven’t ever  thought that what do we want from ourselves. People want to become successful entrepreneurs but nothing goes without taking risks. Be positive and follow your dreams .Don’t let negativity bring you down.

If one really wants something and believe one can get it than will surely get it. No matter what circumstances we have to face but in the end you always get what you want. But the only need of the hour is to sit calmly and think what do we want to do and just go in the direction of your dreams.

As they say “where there’s a will, there’s a way” but you need to find that way out. Nothing good in life comes easy," we've been told that a hundred times before. The good things in life we accomplish are defined by where we enjoy the suffering, where we enjoy the struggle.

People want a boyfriend or girlfriend. But you don't end up attracting amazing people without loving the emotional turbulence that comes with weathering rejections, building the  tension that never gets released, and staring blankly at a phone that never rings. It's part of the game of love. You can't win if you don't play. But if you really wait for it, you want it from the core of your heart then you'll surely get it. But just make an effort to bring it on the right track. Face few troubles, listen to other peoples opinions but don't do exactly what they say. Do what your heart says, Just listen to your heart and go with the flow.